Of course we want to have one, more like two, preferably a boy and a girl.
A baby brings so much joy in a family, completes a family. Some couples wait years before bringing kid(s) to the marriage, while others want one right away. During the first few weeks of our marriage, we wanted to have a baby right away. The idea of having a baby seems fun, maybe because we know that we will be good parents. Geez, I know we are going to be great!
But thats just it. Every couple who dreams of having a baby thinks that they’d be great parents without thinking of the issues a baby will bring.
With only more than two months into the marriage, we don’t know if we should have one right away. We don’t know if the time is right. Having a baby is a BIG responsibility. HUGE! Not to mention very expensive, what with the baby stuff we need to buy. With the wedding just a couple of months ago, our finances aren’t so good; we are stil trying to save save save. And since both of us work, we don’t know how we would manage our time taking care of the baby.
I’ve always wanted to be a dad, but now, I don’t know if I have what it takes to be a dad. Imagine being fully responsible for another human being. Whoa! And I don’t even take a bath everyday! (I can go three days without havin one!)
I started this blog so I could keep a journal of the things that happen, and one of them is becoming a father, maybe someday soon.
i bet you’re right. you two are going to be wonderful parents, no doubt about it! hehe wala kasi akong mashare about having children, though i already have traits na makuha niya. sana matigas ulo niya. hehe
Posted by mordsith at April 10, 2008, 11:07 pmHuwag muna! Para makapag-spend kayo ng time na kayo lang muna. Kasi pagdating ng baby, mag-i-iba talaga.
Posted by TPS at April 11, 2008, 8:31 amka2x: There is this couple I know that created a blog when they decided to have a baby. The blog is a year old now and still no baby, hehe.
Minsan kapag pina-planu tsaka ayaw. First naman sya, so bahala sya dumating, wait lang kami.
mordsith: HA! Matigas ang ulo ni wife, sobra! Parang ako!
I’m sure the baby will get that.
TPS: Liked the idea of havin the wife all to myself 
Uuuggggh! Overly active pa naman ang imagination ko! Must. Forget. This! Hahaha. Seriously, babies/toddler are one of the most effective contraceptives.
Posted by TPS at April 11, 2008, 4:38 pmTPS: Babies are super cute, but with all the crying and pooping, haay, kakapagod mag alaga!
Posted by thehusbandspeaks at April 14, 2008, 10:11 amtoo graphic, well, not yet, pero… for someone like TPS who has wild imagination (remember the red thong of t2rad?)… nyahaha!
Posted by eks at April 14, 2008, 10:54 amYou lot are wild! I edited some “graphic” comments.
Welcome eks! Link kita ah!? You too TPS!
Ha, ha! I’ve read that bit na before you erased it.
I, too, think that the two of you will be wonderful parents 
You are a fast one! 
Thanks zarine!
I think CEDs make wonderful parents because we are wonderful people!
“I think CEDs make wonderful parents because we are wonderful people!”
conceited! kaya nalilipat sa ibang floor e. nyahaha! *peace*
Posted by eks at April 15, 2008, 6:49 pmEks, *#@!,nakalimutan ko na sana yung red thong na yun! Kainis, naalala ko na naman, and the two buns bobbing up and down. Hahahahaha! Gross! Peace, t2rad.
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It can be very difficult deciding when to try to have a baby, but the idea of it is simply WONDERFUL. It will all depend on the couple. Pero mas sobrang OK kung napag-planuhan ng mabuti, not only for your own benefit, but for the baby’s sake as well. Less conflict and less stress, promise
Posted by ka2x at April 10, 2008, 2:36 pm